Girl. Run. This is fundamental to a relationship. I don’t think people have to agree on politics when it’s matters like taxes and foreign policy. But his views are actual, tangible things that would have immediate, permanent and extreme impacts on your life. I’m flabbergasted you have been with this man for so long, but regardless of how long I’d been with someone, if they said, “i’d have to kill you,” I’d pack my things and leave without notice as soon as possible What the In October We Wear Pink Messy Bun Sunglasses Leopard Teacher Life Breast Cancer T-Shirt it is in the first place but fuck does “I’d have to kill you, ya know” mean?! How the hell can this cretin think that an appropriate response to an abortion is murder. He’d throw away a 13 year relationship with someone he believes that he knows and loves over a clump of cells? It’s completely irrational. It’s psychotic. Your partner is not safe. Stay away from them. Girl run. No amount of emotional investment is worth your life and he just threatened it. Hypothetical or not, that is terrifying.
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I’m sorry he feels that way. It’s really hard to be with someone you feel like you can’t share your truths with; I can’t imagine how hard it is not to be able to tell him you had abortions before you knew him. Ex boyfriend and he’s a time waster, you still have so much to live and experience as your own person. He’s thinking is backwards and dangerous. 13 years? Crikey! You’d think the In October We Wear Pink Messy Bun Sunglasses Leopard Teacher Life Breast Cancer T-Shirt it is in the first place but subject would have come up at some point in that amount of time. Did you not feel comfortable discussing important topics with him for some reason? I mean, this should have been part of regular family planning discussions. “What do we do if we get pregnant?” You’ve been dating this guy for 13 years and you’ve never talked about this? This is a huge deal to me, I don’t sleep with anyone who doesn’t share the same views with me. I can’t, it’s not attractive. I couldn’t be with someone who thought this way. It seems like your mind is made up. I wish you luck.