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If my husband, who I have been with for 20 years, said to me he would kill me if I aborted his baby I would no longer feel safe in his presence. “Pro-life” but will joke about killing a person for asserting their autonomy lol. I think he just doesn’t like women. Like, he totally expected OP to 100% agree wit that most fundamental logic. Feels almost sociopathic because he doesn’t even realize how twisted a thing that is to say. Oh believe me, I was shocked when he said it. Emotionally, I can think of a million ways to excuse it or down play it but logically, I know better and I’ll never forget that he said it. Tbh….most women I know usually talk casually about these sorts of topic (abortion, sex work etc.) early on to get a first impression on a guy because if they say something like your bf did, they’d run. I don’t think he would’ve listened anyway. Thanks for providing a place where I can get this off my chest and process it out in writing. We’ve been together almost 13 years but idk if I can do it much longer. So if you had told this man about your abortions, he most likely would have looked down on you, and would have never seriously dated you. How could you stay with him? I understand it’s hard to overcome the I’m Ready To Crush Preschool Back To School Dinosaur Vintage Sunset T-Shirt in contrast I will get this sunk cost fallacy….but OP, just imagine having kids with this man, and him teaching them these things….