What a male centric point of view. Just tell him you had abortions. If he breaks up with you, then he’s not the Football Sister Messy Bun Sunglasses Leopard Football T-Shirt also I will do this guy for you. But if you told him and that makes him re-evaluate his views then maybe he could be saved after all. Maybe he would realize that women who have abortions aren’t bad people. Not telling him is just you trying to look like a good person FOR him. Rip out that band-aid, girl. It will hurt but you’ll find out the truth and get over it soon. The “I’d have to kill you” comment is really concerning. 13 years is a long time – but research the sunk cost fallacy, that might help you move on faster (It doesn’t matter how much time you’ve already invested, it only matters what you get out of it moving forward from here to decide if you should continue to invest in the relationship)
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However, if you’re going to stick out this relationship – I would start with the Football Sister Messy Bun Sunglasses Leopard Football T-Shirt also I will do this wedge. He thinks abortion is okay for a lot of scenarios where the current laws going into effect would not allow abortion. There is also the thinking something is morally wrong, doesn’t make sense for it to be a law since it has unintended side effects. Then, since you only really vote between two parties – there is the issue that republican politicians aren’t doing anything to support sex education, and have actively fought expansion of health care and child care that would actually reduce abortions. It is seriously possible he just hasn’t thought about this. In the end though, I wouldn’t want to be with someone who had such a low bar for joking about kill me.