Also, stop having sex with your bf, or get away. None of these anti choice people deserve sex or being around others that are sane. There was so much wrong with my last relationship by the Even Witches Wear Pink Sugar Skull Roses Pink Breast Cancer Awareness Warrior T-Shirt also I will do this end, but when he looked me in the eye and said I was disgusting for thinking women should be able to get abortions…it was the beginning of a very tragic end. My theory? There are other things wrong here. It will break at some point. Don’t give in to the sunk cost fallacy. I made all sorts of excuses for him, we were together over 12 years. His words shouldn’t get the chance to test if they will be his actions. When someone shows you who they are believe them the first time. I think the topic of abortion is something that partners need to 100% agree on. Along with a clear plan in case a pregnancy did occur. He said if you aborted my baby for no reason I’d have to kill you. When a pregnancy happens between a couple with opposing views on abortion things can get very dangerous. ETA: I married a guy with different political views. It was not good. I can’t even imagine the old me choosing him, alas I had zero self esteem and didn’t think politics were that big of a deal. They’re a huge deal. It says almost everything about that person imo. “If you aborted my baby I’d have to kill you” is a statement that would be a complete and utter deal breaker for me. The violence, disdain, misogyny and complete and utter lack of empathy or acknowledgement of you as an individual in this statement is horrifying. Wow, that’s a long time to be with someone so out of sync with your politics. Hope you move on and find someone who’s not a misogynist…
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I mean, your boyfriend said there exist conditions under which he would kill you. Imo you should leave him asap. He’s dangerous. It’s a conditional death threat whether you view it as such or not. Believe people when they tell you who they are. If you get an abortion, he will kill you. “I’d have to kill you” isn’t a normal response for something like that “I’d break up with you” “I’d never speak with you again”…normal. Girl…come on now. You should take him at his word. He said he would kill you if you ever thought of aborting his kid. The absolute worst people you’ve ever heard of weren’t all bad. The Russian Orcs raping and pillaging their way through Ukraine right now have people they love at home.