That requires further clarification, because “I would have to kill you if you did that” is, on its face, clearly a threat. How was that not a threat? Edit: Also, you didn’t have to put “prolife” in parentheses after “anti choice”. He’s got thoughts of murder in his head. He’s not pro life at all; he’s just anti choice. XY here. Who even jokes that they would have to kill you? I would maintain that a “good guy” would not. Violence against women is so common and so horrific that you just don’t. Wrong on so many levels. Sorry dear but he doesn’t see you as a full human being with rights. Your decisions start from that truth. Hug to ya in this painful situation. You’ve done nothing wrong Holy shit, run. The difference is my male partner strategizing with me in xyz scenario because he has seen some shit. You hold the Be Kind I Have Fillings Too Dentist Dental Hygienist T-Shirt also I will do this cards, use them. I’d rather be alone than that sort of male creature. I know you’re in denial, but this is a major red flag… Do not stay with this man that IS a threat on your life even if you don’t think it is. Whether it was a threat or not he easily said he would kill you if you aborted his offspring. Get the heck out of there and don’t tell him about your past abortions for your safety. If he threatens to kill you over a fictional pregnancy, imagine how he’s going to look at you if he ever found out about the abortions.
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Last dude that I dated said he would kill me if I ever broke his heart. Noped myself out of that situation so quick and when I was stepped back, I saw the Be Kind I Have Fillings Too Dentist Dental Hygienist T-Shirt also I will do this flags. There is never any reason that your spouse would ‘have’ to kill you unless they were actively trying to prevent you from killing them. He has made his mind up on this. If you aborted his child, he would kill you. That should tell you everything you need to know about how much he loves and respects you as a human. 13 years doesn’t mean shit if he’s willing to end your life for any decision you make about your own body and future. That’s men, the logical and rational sex. So comfortable with casual threats of murder when you don’t do what they want. If you’re on opposite ends of the political spectrum and he’s anti choice, he was never a good guy, you were just willing to overlook it. Sorry to say as a guy. But you have been dating either a sociopath or someone who says stupid shit all the time. In either case I think that you wasted 13 years. I grew up with this same line of thinking. I went off to college at 18 thinking that abortion was perhaps one of the worst things a person could do. It was my upbringing and what I had been given, I hadn’t been exposed to other ideas.